{"id":769,"date":"2023-06-05T14:30:00","date_gmt":"2023-06-05T14:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=769"},"modified":"2023-06-05T14:30:02","modified_gmt":"2023-06-05T14:30:02","slug":"mesimet-qe-mora-nga-humbja-e-tim-biri-flutura-acka-mesazh-dritherues-per-vdekjen-e-djalit-te-saj-te-vetem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=769","title":{"rendered":"M\u00ebsimet Q\u00eb Mora Nga Humbja E Tim Biri: Flutura A\u00e7ka Mesazh Drith\u00ebrues P\u00ebr Vdekjen E Djalit T\u00eb Saj T\u00eb Vet\u00ebm\u2026!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n<p>Pas ndarjes nga jeta e birit t\u00eb vet\u00ebm, vjen me nj\u00eb mesazh rreqeth\u00ebs shkrimtarja Flutura A\u00e7ka.<br \/>\nTeksa ka gjetur forc\u00eb t\u00eb falenderoj\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb i jan\u00eb gjendur pran\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb zije e dhimbjeje pa fund, ajo ndan me gjith\u00eb t\u00eb njohurit e te panjohurit n\u00eb rrjetin social \u2018Facebook\u2019, leksionin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh q\u00eb i dha djali i saj.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSi t\u00eb gjesh tok\u00ebn pas shtr\u00ebngat\u00ebs n\u00eb oqeanin e dhimbjes. \u201cMam, prova jote se m\u00eb ke dashur v\u00ebrtet, fillon tani. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb dish t\u00eb vazhdosh. B\u00ebj gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb di t\u00eb b\u00ebsh! Shkruaj! T\u00eb shkruash \u00ebsht\u00eb terapia jote. B\u00ebje, Mam, mos hyr n\u00eb spiralen e dhimbjes, atje humb.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Postimi i Flutura A\u00e7kes<br \/>\nMiqt\u00eb e mi t\u00eb vyer,<br \/>\nKa dit\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqem t\u00eb formuloj disa rreshta falenderimi p\u00ebr ju, por e kam patur t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb ulem e t\u00eb shkruaj, edhe pse jam njeri i st\u00ebrvitur me fjal\u00ebn. Lebetia q\u00eb kalova, dhe po kaloj, e ftoh njeriun me bot\u00ebn, e vetmon zemr\u00ebn, por vala e dashuris\u00eb dhe e merakut njer\u00ebzor q\u00eb m\u00eb ka rrethuar k\u00ebto dit\u00eb, m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ndjej nj\u00eb prani t\u00eb pap\u00ebrmast\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb humbje t\u00eb madhe.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk e kisha ditur se isha n\u00eb mesin e nj\u00eb mbrojtjeje t\u00eb till\u00eb njer\u00ebzore, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nga shkujdesja dhe nxiti i p\u00ebrdit\u00ebs, nuk kam mundur ta mas, as ta kuptoj si duhet. N\u00eb dit\u00ebt e pik\u00ebllimit tim akut, kjo prani u shfaq me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb pesh\u00ebn, shqet\u00ebsimin dhe p\u00ebrkorien e vet. E till\u00eb, si e askund.<\/p>\n<p>Miq shum\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime, t\u00eb af\u00ebrm e familjar\u00eb t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb, mor\u00ebn rrug\u00ebt n\u00ebp\u00ebr Europ\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb ishin pran\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb. Mij\u00ebra e mij\u00ebra e mij\u00ebra e mij\u00ebra mesazhe e telefonata, n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha format q\u00eb shpiku teknologjia, m\u00eb kan\u00eb mb\u00ebrritur, bashk\u00eb me lutjen q\u00eb t\u2019i ndjej se jan\u00eb pran\u00eb meje.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, jan\u00eb pran\u00eb meje, dhe un\u00eb lutem t\u00eb gjej qet\u00ebsin\u00eb e duhur q\u00eb t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjem e t\u2019i falenderoj me po at\u00eb dashuri q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb shkruar dhe trajtuar humbjen time k\u00ebto dit\u00eb. Lexues, miq q\u00eb kam takuar n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time, qytetar\u00eb t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb q\u00eb shpesh m\u00eb kan\u00eb ndalur n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, t\u00eb panjohur t\u00eb shumt\u00eb, t\u00eb njohur t\u00eb larg\u00ebt, njer\u00ebz publik\u00eb me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ende nuk kam mundur t\u00eb pi nj\u00eb kafe, koleg\u00eb shkrimtar\u00eb dhe njer\u00ebz t\u00eb kultur\u00ebs shq iptare, dhe jo vet\u00ebm, t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb ndjekur n\u00eb q\u00ebndrimet e mia publike, miq t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, mesazh et e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve m\u00eb kan\u00eb humbur n\u00ebp\u00ebr rrjetet sociale, kan\u00eb ndar\u00eb me mua di\u00e7ka nga pesha e k\u00ebtyre dit\u00ebve, m\u00eb t\u00eb rendat e jet\u00ebs sime. Secilit prej tyre, m\u00eb vete, i p\u00ebrcjell falenderimin tim dhe mir\u00ebnjohjen e thell\u00eb, duke ururar t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoj vet\u00ebm lajme t\u00eb g\u00ebzuara p\u00ebr secilin prej tyre.<\/p>\n<p>Dikur, diku, kam lexuar se e vetmja gj\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht e jona, \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkuara. Por im Bir nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkuara ime, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00eb jeta ime. Me k\u00ebt\u00eb ikje t\u00eb parakohshme, im Bir m\u00eb rind\u00ebrtoi si njeri, m\u00eb m\u00ebsoi si t\u00eb fal edhe t\u00eb pafalshmen, m\u00eb la t\u00eb kuptoj se nuk mjafton vet\u00ebm t\u00eb jetosh me dinjitet, por t\u00eb ik\u00ebsh nga kjo jet\u00eb po aq dinjitetsh\u00ebm, dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb kurosh edhe n\u00eb ikje e sip\u00ebr, plag\u00ebt e parakohshm e t\u00eb qenieve t\u00eb dashura pran\u00eb teje.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb djalosh i hapur ndaj bot\u00ebs s\u00eb madhe prej studimeve nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare, nj\u00eb europian fanatik dhe fantastik, nj\u00eb holandez i paqt\u00eb, feja e t\u00eb cilit ishin ligji dhe liria, nj\u00eb shqiptar krenar deri n\u00eb mrekullim, im Bir m\u00eb dha leksonin m\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime: Si t\u00eb gjesh tok\u00ebn pas shtr\u00ebngat\u00ebs n\u00eb oqeanin e dhimbjes. \u201cMam, prova jote se m\u00eb ke dashur v\u00ebrtet, fillon tani. N\u00ebse do t\u00eb dish t\u00eb vazhdosh. B\u00ebj gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb di t\u00eb b\u00ebsh! Shkruaj! T\u00eb shkruash \u00ebsht\u00eb terapia jote. B\u00ebje, Mam, mos hyr n\u00eb spiralen e dhimbjes, atje humb.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Tani jam e tronditur dhe n\u00ebn tundimin p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrbir\u00eb brenda meje k\u00ebt\u00eb dhimbje, por kur ju mendoj juve, aq dashuri q\u00eb m\u00eb rrethon, trandem dhe kujtohem p\u00ebr kahjen kah duhet ecur.<br \/>\nFli, Bir, jam mir\u00eb! \u00c7far\u00ebdo jete q\u00eb t\u00eb kem, dit\u00ebt e mia t\u00eb jet\u00ebs do t\u00eb jen\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb m\u00eb pak se falenderimet q\u00eb kam marr\u00eb prej teje. Ti ishte prej atyre q\u00eb dite t\u00eb m\u00eb pasurosh edhe me ikjen t\u00ebnde, ti vije, dhe vjen ende, era Njeri!<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pas ndarjes nga jeta e birit t\u00eb vet\u00ebm, vjen me nj\u00eb mesazh rreqeth\u00ebs shkrimtarja Flutura A\u00e7ka. 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