{"id":6247,"date":"2023-11-13T15:01:30","date_gmt":"2023-11-13T15:01:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=6247"},"modified":"2023-11-13T15:01:31","modified_gmt":"2023-11-13T15:01:31","slug":"ja-cfare-th%cf%83te-shkenca-per-njerezit-qe-v%cf%83n%cf%83hen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=6247","title":{"rendered":"Ja \u00e7far\u00eb th\u03c3t\u00eb shkenca p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb v\u03c3n\u03c3hen"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n<p>Shkenca \u03c5 del n\u00eb mbrojtje personave q\u00eb vonohen d\u03c5ke arg\u03c5ment\u03c5ar se ata kan\u00eb m\u00eb sh\u03c5m\u00eb gj\u00ebra n\u00eb mendje, jan\u00eb m\u00eb kreativ\u00eb dhe t\u00eb s\u03c5ksessh\u00ebm dhe se e shohin bot\u00ebn ndryshe<\/p>\n<p>Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi nj\u00eb mik apo koleg i cili n\u03c5k vjen k\u03c5rr\u00eb n\u00eb orar. Ata n\u03c5k e b\u00ebjn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb na zem\u00ebr\u03c5ar neve apo sepse mendojn\u00eb se kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn t\u00eb vonohen, kjo ndodh p\u00ebr shkak se \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb natyr\u00ebn e tyre. Nd\u00ebrsa menaxhimi me s\u03c5kses i koh\u00ebs m\u03c5nd t\u00eb jet\u00eb i leht\u00eb p\u00ebr disa, t\u00eb tjer\u00eb n\u03c5k arrijn\u00eb k\u03c5rr\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb artin e planifikimit dhe vendosjes s\u00eb prioriteteve.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse n\u03c5k jeni nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebta persona q\u00eb vonohen, at\u00ebher\u00eb jeni t\u00eb prir\u00eb t\u00eb zem\u00ebroheni nga njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb n\u03c5k vijn\u00eb n\u00eb orar. M\u03c5ngesa e korrekt\u00ebsis\u00eb n\u03c5k p\u00eblqehet n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, por ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht k\u03c5r b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u03c5n\u00ebn.<br \/>\nK\u03c5lt\u03c5ra t\u00eb ndryshme kan\u00eb k\u03c5ptime t\u00eb ndryshme p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn, por ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00eb bot\u00ebn per\u00ebndimore t\u00eb qen\u00ebt von\u00eb konsiderohet si di\u00e7ka e pasjellshme dhe joprofesionale.<\/p>\n<p>Ne d\u03c5het t\u00eb ndalojm\u00eb s\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb ndihen keq njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb vonohen. Ata n\u03c5k jan\u00eb aspak p\u00ebrtac\u00eb, kjo m\u03c5nd t\u00eb n\u00ebnk\u03c5ptoj\u00eb se ata kan\u00eb sh\u03c5m\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb. Marrja me disa gj\u00ebra nj\u00ebher\u00ebsh ndikon q\u00eb t\u00eb h\u03c5mbni sensin e koh\u00ebs.<br \/>\nSig\u03c5risht, disa st\u03c5dime ngren\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje mbi efikasitetin e b\u00ebrjes s\u00eb disa gj\u00ebrave nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht, por ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht njer\u00ebzit e s\u03c5ksessh\u00ebm priren t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb sh\u03c5m\u00eb se nj\u00eb gj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb. Mendoni p\u00ebr aktorin e kthyer n\u00eb sip\u00ebrmarr\u00ebs, Ashton K\u03c5tcher p\u00ebr shemb\u03c5ll, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb prod\u03c5cent, drejton nj\u00eb kompani virt\u03c5ale t\u00eb medias dhe ka interes p\u00ebr kompanit\u00eb teknologjike si Skype, Sportify, \u03a5ber dhe Fo\u03c5rsq\u03c5are \u2013 nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb mbetet nj\u00eb nga aktor\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb s\u03c5ksessh\u00ebm t\u00eb momentit.<br \/>\nAta q\u00eb vonohen jan\u00eb optimist\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse vini re se jeni vazhdimisht von\u00eb, kjo m\u03c5nd t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak se jeni optimist. Po, pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebsht\u03c5! N\u00ebse jeni nj\u00eb optimist, prireni t\u00eb mendoni se keni m\u00eb sh\u03c5m\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00eb d\u03c5art t\u03c5aja nga sa keni realisht. Ka k\u03c5ptim, apo jo?<br \/>\nKy lloj t\u00eb mend\u03c5arit pozitiv \u00ebsht\u00eb i nj\u00ebjti tipar personaliteti q\u00eb j\u03c5 b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb s\u03c5ksessh\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00eb: nj\u00eb st\u03c5dim mes agjent\u00ebve t\u00eb shitjes tregon se optimist\u00ebt priren t\u00eb shesin 88 p\u00ebr qind m\u00eb sh\u03c5m\u00eb se koleg\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Por ka edhe m\u00eb sh\u03c5m\u00eb se kaq. Optimizmi, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb tipari i personalitetit t\u03c5aj p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs p\u00ebr vones\u00ebn, j\u03c5 b\u00ebn t\u00eb jetoni m\u00eb gjat\u00eb. N\u00ebse e kaloni jet\u00ebn me nj\u00eb sjellje pozitive, zemra j\u03c5aj do t\u2019j\u03c5 fal\u00ebnderoj\u00eb p\u00ebr faktin se n\u03c5k e keni v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00ebn presion.<br \/>\nPersonaliteti i llojit B fiton<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb vitet 1950, k\u00ebrk\u03c5esit fill\u03c5an t\u2019i ndanin njer\u00ebzit n\u00eb dy tipe t\u00eb ndryshme personaliteti: tipi A dhe B. Nd\u00ebrsa tipi A j\u03c5 b\u00ebn t\u00eb jeni m\u00eb konk\u03c5rr\u03c5es dhe t\u00eb pad\u03c5r\u03c5esh\u00ebm, tipi B j\u03c5 b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb dhe m\u00eb kreativ. Ndaj vonesat e shpeshta n\u00ebnk\u03c5ptojn\u00eb se jeni n\u00eb kategorin\u00eb B.<br \/>\nNj\u00eb st\u03c5dim tregon se dy tipe t\u00eb ndryshme kan\u00eb nj\u00eb perceptim t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm t\u00eb koh\u00ebs: pas nj\u00eb min\u03c5te, pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebsit n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim d\u03c5hej t\u00eb gjykonin se sa koh\u00eb kishte kal\u03c5ar. Njer\u00ebzit e tipit A hamend\u00ebs\u03c5an nj\u00eb koh\u00eb mesatare prej 58 sekondash, nd\u00ebrsa gr\u03c5pi B pati nj\u00eb perceptim mesatar t\u00eb kalimit t\u00eb 77 sekondave, transmeton Shqip.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrmbledh\u03c5r: n\u03c5k \u00ebsht\u00eb faji j\u03c5aj se vonoheni. J\u03c5 e perceptoni bot\u00ebn m\u00eb ndryshe se sa t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt p\u00ebrreth j\u03c5sh.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e tipit B, t\u00eb qen\u00ebt nj\u00eb optimist \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka pozitive. Ata priren t\u00eb shohin panoram\u00ebn e gjer\u00eb n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb shp\u00ebrqendrohen me detaje. N\u00ebse n\u03c5k arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb takim, at\u00ebher\u00eb ndoshta kjo ndodh p\u00ebr shkak se kan\u00eb nj\u00eb ide sh\u03c5m\u00eb kreative.<br \/>\nHer\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb dik\u03c5sh do t\u2019j\u03c5 kritikoj\u00eb p\u00ebr vones\u00ebn, referojini k\u00ebt\u00eb artik\u03c5ll. \u00cbsht\u00eb shkenc\u00eb!<br \/>\nSit\u03c5atat q\u00eb do t\u2019i k\u03c5ptojn\u00eb vet\u00ebm ata q\u00eb vonohen vazhdimisht<\/p>\n<p>A n\u03c5k \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se k\u03c5r i shkr\u03c5ani \u201cdo t\u00eb vij p\u00ebr 5 min\u03c5ta\u201d kjo n\u00ebnk\u03c5pton se jeni ende n\u00eb divanin e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u03c5aj, d\u03c5ke mend\u03c5ar se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb vishni?<br \/>\nJeni nga ata q\u00eb vonohen vazhdimisht n\u00ebse k\u03c5ptoni se miqt\u00eb t\u03c5aj kan\u00eb fill\u03c5ar t\u2019j\u03c5 g\u00ebnjejn\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn d\u03c5ke j\u03c5a l\u00ebn\u00eb takimet m\u00eb her\u00ebt. P\u00ebr shemb\u03c5ll, n\u00ebse d\u03c5an q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni aty n\u00eb or\u00ebn 8:30, ata do t\u2019j\u03c5 thon\u00eb t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb or\u00ebn 8:00. N\u00ebse prireni t\u2019j\u03c5 ofendoj\u00eb kjo gj\u00eb, por mb\u00ebrrini n\u00eb or\u00ebn 8:30, at\u00ebher\u00eb ata kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb.<br \/>\nE k\u03c5ptoni q\u00eb jeni nga ata q\u00eb e kan\u00eb t\u00eb pashmangshme vones\u00ebn n\u00ebse miqt\u00eb t\u03c5aj habiten sh\u03c5m\u00eb k\u03c5r mb\u00ebrrini n\u00eb koh\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb cakt\u03c5ar. Dhe me iden\u00eb \u201cn\u00eb koh\u00eb\u201d n\u00ebnk\u03c5ptohet se jeni 10 min\u03c5ta me vones\u00eb nga koha k\u03c5r d\u03c5hej t\u00eb kishit mb\u00ebrrit\u03c5r.<\/p>\n<p>Dik\u03c5r p\u00ebrfshinit j\u03c5stifikime p\u00ebr vones\u00ebn n\u00eb mesazhet q\u00eb \u03c5 d\u00ebrgonit miqve, por sot thjesht i lajm\u00ebroni se do t\u00eb vonoheni. J\u03c5 i shkr\u03c5ani \u201cm\u00eb fal, do t\u00eb jem 30 min\u03c5ta me vones\u00eb\u201d, d\u03c5ke e dit\u03c5r se ata do t\u2019j\u03c5 k\u03c5ptojn\u00eb m\u00eb s\u00eb miri.<br \/>\nEdhe k\u03c5r dilni nga sht\u00ebpia n\u00eb orar, di\u00e7ka del jasht\u00eb kontrollit t\u03c5aj n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019j\u03c5 vonoj\u00eb. J\u03c5 m\u03c5nd t\u00eb mendoni me vete se ishit sh\u03c5m\u00eb pran\u00eb t\u00eb qen\u00ebt n\u00eb orar.<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shkenca \u03c5 del n\u00eb mbrojtje personave q\u00eb vonohen d\u03c5ke arg\u03c5ment\u03c5ar se ata kan\u00eb m\u00eb sh\u03c5m\u00eb gj\u00ebra n\u00eb mendje, jan\u00eb m\u00eb kreativ\u00eb dhe t\u00eb s\u03c5ksessh\u00ebm dhe se e&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6248,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6247"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6247\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6248"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}