{"id":4271,"date":"2023-10-03T11:21:26","date_gmt":"2023-10-03T11:21:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=4271"},"modified":"2023-10-03T11:21:29","modified_gmt":"2023-10-03T11:21:29","slug":"gruaja-ndahet-nga-burri-le-7-femijet-dhe-nderton-familje-tjeter-vajza-na-la-te-gjitheve-me-babain-por-ajo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=4271","title":{"rendered":"\u201cGruaja ndahet nga burri, l\u00eb 7 f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe nd\u00ebrton familje tjet\u00ebr\u201d, Vajza: Na la t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve me babain por ajo.."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n<p>Luli \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kampione noti e cila ka ardhur nga Anglia n\u00eb programin \u201cE Diela Shqiptare\u201d n\u00eb Tv Klan q\u00eb t\u00eb ndaj\u00eb historin\u00eb e saj n\u00eb \u201cKa Nj\u00eb Mesazh P\u00ebr Ty\u201d. Kan\u00eb kaluar 38 vite nga nj\u00eb ngjarje n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e familjes s\u00eb Lulit, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ajo mendon se edhe sot \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb peng p\u00ebr njeriun q\u00eb e ka sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Nj\u00eb histori divorci, zgjedhjesh dhe sakrificash e cila nis kur Luli ishte 8 vje\u00e7e.<\/p>\n<p>Luli: Kam jetuar me mamin dhe babin p\u00ebr  8 vite sepse kur un\u00eb isha 8 vje\u00e7e, prind\u00ebrit e mi u divorcuan.<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: Sa f\u00ebmij\u00eb ishit ju?<\/p>\n<p>Luli: Ne kemi qen\u00eb7 f\u00ebmij\u00eb, 4 \u00e7una dhe 3 goca. Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb kam ardhur sot q\u00eb t\u00eb them at\u00eb pengun q\u00eb un\u00eb mendoj se n\u00ebna ime ka pasur p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebtij divorci. Ne kemi qen\u00eb t\u00eb vegj\u00ebl, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb f\u00ebmija m\u00eb i vog\u00ebl, 8 vje\u00e7e, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb motra ime m\u00eb e madhe ka qen\u00eb 20. Pas divorcit, nj\u00eb familje nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte. P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb mosmarr\u00ebveshjeve t\u00eb tim ati me n\u00ebn\u00ebn time, n\u00ebna ime vendos q\u00eb t\u00eb largohet duke na l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve me babain.<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: T\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me babain?<\/p>\n<p>Luli: T\u00eb gjith\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt me babain.<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: Po gjykata ju ndau apo ju la t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve me babin?<\/p>\n<p>Luli: Jo, gjykata na ndau gjysm\u00eb p\u00ebr gjysm\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e vegj\u00ebl me maman\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenjt\u00eb me baban\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: Por nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb ju mbajti babi t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve?<\/p>\n<p>Luli: Ne na mbajti babi, po. Nuk ishte se n\u00ebna jon\u00eb na la dhe iku. Un\u00eb mendoj se ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb grua e zgjuar sepse para se t\u00eb ikte ajo na pyeti n\u00ebse d\u00ebshironim q\u00eb t\u00eb shkonim me t\u00eb. Ajo do shkonte do krijonte nj\u00eb familje tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb nj\u00eb fshat t\u00eb Tepelen\u00ebs. Tani q\u00eb e mendoj ka b\u00ebr\u00eb gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, mendoj ka qen\u00eb e zgjuar dhe ka menduar p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: Prit pak, ju la juve dhe shkoi p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb familje  tjet\u00ebr?<\/p>\n<p>Luli: Po.<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: Po ku q\u00ebndron zgjuarsia k\u00ebtu?<\/p>\n<p>Luli: Nuk e kisha n\u00eb prizmin q\u00eb na la ne dhe shkoi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb familje tjet\u00ebr. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00ebse ka mosmarr\u00ebveshje \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb ndahesh, t\u00eb divorcohesh.<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: Kjo pa diskutim.<\/p>\n<p>Luli shton se nga 8 vitet q\u00eb ka jetuar me t\u00eb \u00ebm\u00ebn ajo mban mend \u00e7do fjal\u00eb e k\u00ebshill\u00eb dhe mendon se \u00ebsht\u00eb merit\u00eb e n\u00ebn\u00ebs e cila ka ditur t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb themele t\u00eb forta. Ishte zgjedhja e Lulit q\u00eb ta refuzonte k\u00ebrkes\u00ebn e n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb saj p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar me t\u00eb n\u00eb fshat, por e \u00ebma e dinte se atje nuk do kishte mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndiqte \u00ebndrr\u00ebn e saj e t\u00eb b\u00ebhej kampione komb\u00ebtare n\u00eb not.<\/p>\n<p>Luli: U gjykua shum\u00eb. Kushdo mund t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb okej, la 7 f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe iku. Un\u00eb nuk e kam gjykaur ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebn time. Ndoshta duket absurde nga dikush q\u00eb mund ta d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb, por \u00e7far\u00eb m\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb mua q\u00eb mos ta gjykoj \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria e saj. Nuk m\u00eb ka munguar dashuria sepse vinte \u00e7do jav\u00eb dhe m\u00eb mbushte me dashuri. Fjal\u00ebt e saj ishin\u2026 nuk e di, kishin magji brenda?<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: Babi u martua prap\u00eb?<\/p>\n<p>Luli: Jo.<\/p>\n<p>Ardit Gjebrea: Fliste ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb mami p\u00ebr babin ose babi p\u00ebr mamin?<\/p>\n<p>Luli: Mami, vazhdimisht, vazhdimisht p\u00ebr njeriun q\u00eb ishte dhe q\u00eb na mbajti, sigurisht q\u00eb ishte shum\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebse. Babi jo dhe shum\u00eb, biles edhe na ndalonte q\u00eb t\u00eb na takonim. Kur ajo vinte, kur do shkoja n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi edhe pse isha mbushur me dashuri, do kisha di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr nga babai. Nuk ishte njeri i keq, absolutisht. 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