Deklarata e saj e fundit, e cila ka b\u00ebr\u00eb buj\u00eb n\u00eb rrjetet sociale dhe media, \u00ebsht\u00eb: \u201cShqiptar\u00ebt jan\u00eb primitiv\u00eb, a shkohet me marr\u00eb nusen me 15 vetura?\u201d. Kjo deklarat\u00eb duket se \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb n\u00eb kontekstin e kritik\u00ebs ndaj traditave ekstravagante t\u00eb dasmave shqiptare, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht zakonit ku krushqit e dh\u00ebndrit shkojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb nusen me nj\u00eb kolon\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb makinash luksoze ose t\u00eb shumta n\u00eb num\u00ebr (shpesh 10-20 vetura ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb). Ky zakon \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrhapur n\u00eb trojet shqiptare, sidomos n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, Shqip\u00ebri dhe Maqedonin\u00eb Veriore, ku konsiderohet si nj\u00eb shfaqje e statusit social, pasuris\u00eb familjare ose \u201cnderit\u201d t\u00eb familjes s\u00eb dh\u00ebndrit. N\u00eb disa raste, kolonat e makinave shoq\u00ebrohen me fishekzjarr\u00eb, muzik\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb, bori makinash dhe festime t\u00eb zhurmshme, duke krijuar nj\u00eb spektak\u00ebl publik.<\/p>\n
Sipas burimeve t\u00eb fundit, kjo deklarat\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shp\u00ebrndar\u00eb gjer\u00ebsisht n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb gushtit 2025, duke u b\u00ebr\u00eb virale n\u00eb platforma si Facebook, Instagram dhe Threads. <\/p>\n
Gazeta Tema raporton se Avdiu e ka th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb ose postim publik, duke e lidhur me primitivizmin shoq\u00ebror, ku ajo argumenton se k\u00ebto zakone nuk kan\u00eb vend n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri moderne dhe se ato shpesh fshehin probleme m\u00eb t\u00eb thella si patriarkatin, presioni social ndaj grave dhe shpenzimet e panevojshme q\u00eb familjet nuk i p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb dot. <\/p>\n
N\u00eb disa postime n\u00eb Facebook, si ai i VataniNews, deklarata \u00ebsht\u00eb cituar drejtp\u00ebrdrejt dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb pyetur publiku p\u00ebr mendimin e tyre, duke treguar se ajo ka ngjallur debate t\u00eb nxehta.
\nP\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar m\u00eb gjer\u00ebsisht kontekstin, le t\u00eb shtjellojm\u00eb tradit\u00ebn n\u00eb fjal\u00eb:<\/p>\n
Origjina dhe kuptimi kulturor: Zakoni i \u201cmarrjes s\u00eb nuses\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e dasmave tradicionale shqiptare, ku familja e dh\u00ebndrit organizon nj\u00eb procesion p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u201cmarr\u00eb\u201d nusen nga sht\u00ebpia e saj. N\u00eb koh\u00ebt e vjetra, kjo b\u00ebhej me kuaj ose karroca, por sot \u00ebsht\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsuar me makina moderne. Numri i madh i veturave simbolizon fuqin\u00eb familjare, solidaritetin mes krushqve dhe festimin publik. N\u00eb disa rajone, si n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, kjo shoq\u00ebrohet me k\u00ebng\u00eb popullore, valle dhe dhurata, por shpesh degjeneron n\u00eb kaos rrugor, duke bllokuar trafikun ose duke shkaktuar aksidente. 9 Disa postime n\u00eb X (ish-Twitter) diskutojn\u00eb se kjo tradit\u00eb ka rr\u00ebnj\u00eb n\u00eb misogjeni, pasi e trajton nusen si \u201cpron\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb \u201cmerret\u201d nga familja e saj, duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet si nj\u00eb objekt n\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb partnereje t\u00eb barabart\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Kritikat e Avdiut: Zana Avdiu e sheh k\u00ebt\u00eb si nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb t\u00eb prapambetjes kulturore, duke argumentuar se n\u00eb vend t\u00eb shpenzimeve t\u00eb tep\u00ebrta p\u00ebr makina ose dasma luksoze, shoq\u00ebria shqiptare duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohet n\u00eb arsim, barazi dhe vlera moderne. Ajo ka kritikuar m\u00eb her\u00ebt zakone t\u00eb ngjashme, si dasmat e gjata (q\u00eb zgjasin dit\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra) ose presionin ndaj vajzave p\u00ebr t\u00eb martuar n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re. 0 N\u00eb postime t\u00eb tjera, si n\u00eb AlbanianNews21, deklarata e saj \u00ebsht\u00eb lidhur me primitivizmin e p\u00ebrgjithsh\u00ebm t\u00eb disa zakoneve, duke e krahasuar me kultura t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb kan\u00eb evoluar.<\/p>\n
Reagimet publike: Deklarata ka ndar\u00eb opinionin. Disa e mb\u00ebshtesin Avdiun, duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se k\u00ebto tradita jan\u00eb t\u00eb vjetruara dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebmshme p\u00ebr mjedisin (p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb ndotjes nga makinat) ose sigurin\u00eb rrugore. N\u00eb X, postime si ai i @rretheperqark argumentojn\u00eb se dasmat shqiptare, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb marrjen e nuses, jan\u00eb t\u00eb bazuara n\u00eb misogjeni dhe duhet t\u00eb ndryshohen. <\/p>\n
T\u00eb tjer\u00eb e kritikojn\u00eb at\u00eb si \u201canti-shqiptare\u201d ose si sulm ndaj traditave q\u00eb ruajn\u00eb identitetin kulturor. N\u00eb Facebook dhe Instagram, komente variojn\u00eb nga \u201cKa t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, jemi prapa koh\u00ebs\u201d deri te \u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb tradita jon\u00eb, mos e prek!\u201d. 16 N\u00eb disa postime, si ai i @nusjaemaleve, diskutohet se si kultura shqiptare ka aspekte pozitive si mos-martesat mes kush\u00ebrinjve, por zakone si ky i makinave e b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb duket primitive. <\/p>\n
Gjithashtu, n\u00eb kontekst m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb, postime t\u00eb tjera n\u00eb X flasin p\u00ebr dasma shqiptare jasht\u00eb vendit, ku tradita si \u201cshower-i i parave\u201d ose festimet e m\u00ebdha jan\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme, por jo domosdoshm\u00ebrisht primitive.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, kjo deklarat\u00eb e Avdiut \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e nj\u00eb debati m\u00eb t\u00eb madh mbi modernizimin e kultur\u00ebs shqiptare: a duhet t\u00eb ruajm\u00eb traditat apo t\u2019i p\u00ebrshtatim ato me koh\u00ebn? Shum\u00eb burime tregojn\u00eb se dasmat shqiptare jan\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjta dhe stresuese, duke \u00e7uar n\u00eb borxhe familjare, nd\u00ebrsa t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt i shohin si fest\u00eb t\u00eb identitetit. 10
\nTani, \u00e7far\u00eb mendoni ju p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb?<\/p>\n
A \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo tradit\u00eb primitive, apo nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e bukur e kultur\u00ebs son\u00eb? A duhet t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb zakonet e dasmave? Komento k\u00ebtu ose ndaj mendimin t\u00ebnd \u2013 do t\u00eb ishte interesante t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoja pik\u00ebpamje t\u00eb ndryshme nga lexuesit!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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