T\u00eb gjitha deklaratat q\u00eb ne b\u00ebjm\u00eb n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, aktivizmi q\u00eb un\u00eb b\u00ebj, \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb n\u00ebse k\u00ebto deklarata q\u00eb ne b\u00ebjm\u00eb, kjo tronditje ose kjo empati q\u00eb ne shfaqim, nuk shoq\u00ebrohet nga aksione dhe veprime konkrete nga institucione, q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast ndihm\u00eb dhe suport ligjor, ekonomik dhe psikologjik, jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn por dhe p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn e vajz\u00ebs. N\u00eb mendjen time, ka disa skenar\u00eb dhe nuk e di n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb k\u00ebto skenar\u00ebt t\u2019i them;, tha si fillim Lekatari.<\/p>\n
M\u00eb tej vazhdoi: Nuk e di n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb e drejt\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj k\u00ebto supozime, por do mundohem t\u00eb jem sa m\u00eb e respektueshme ndaj institucioneve, ndaj viktimave dhe ndaj ngjarjes. Pse mamaja nuk e ka kuptuar m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara? Sepse kjo mama, n\u00eb nj\u00eb mosh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb re, si fillim ka shtat\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, nuk ia ka iden\u00eb s\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb planifikim familjar. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb mama q\u00eb nuk ka as dh\u00ebmb\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kafshuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u2019u ushqyer mir\u00eb. Jo se dua ta denigroj nga ana estetike, por dua t\u00eb v\u00eb n\u00eb dukje faktin q\u00eb kjo familje nuk p\u00ebrmbushte as nevojat kryesore t\u00eb dy prind\u00ebrve dhe l\u00ebre m\u00eb t\u00eb dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Gjat\u00eb deklaratave d\u00ebshp\u00ebruese t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj n\u00ebne, e cila sigurisht \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb shok p\u00ebr ngjarjen q\u00eb ka ndodhur dhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si ajo ka arritur t\u00eb identifikoj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb marr\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, nga komshinjt\u00eb, nga policia, deklaroi q\u00eb personi i vet\u00ebm q\u00eb siguronte mbar\u00ebvajtjen e familjes apo q\u00eb mbante familjen, ishte babai. K\u00ebshtu q\u00eb, nj\u00eb skenar q\u00eb un\u00eb mendoj, \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ajo edhe mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb kuptuar, por mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb sakrifikuar n\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre vajz\u00ebn e saj, duke par\u00eb q\u00eb i vetmi burim i parave ishte babai. Ajo edhe mund ta ket\u00eb kuptuar q\u00eb di\u00e7ka nuk shkon, por mund edhe t\u00eb mos ta ket\u00eb besuar, mund edhe ta ket\u00eb m\u00ebnjanuar, p\u00ebrjashtuar k\u00ebt\u00eb si ide, si mendim, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i tmerrsh\u00ebm dhe nuk besoj q\u00eb ideja e par\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua e cila e ka zgjedhur me d\u00ebshir\u00eb \u2013 n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb rasti \u2013 burrin e saj, \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ky burri \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrdhunues dhe in\u00e7estuoz n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj.<\/p>\n
Pra nuk e shoh k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb si p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse. Mund ta shoh si p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse, por e shoh edhe si viktim\u00eb nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht. Kjo i p\u00ebrmban shum\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb dyja rolet. E shoh si viktim\u00eb sepse nuk i di rrethanat e familjes s\u00eb saj t\u00eb origjin\u00ebs, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar a \u00ebsht\u00eb e edukuar, a ka ngritje individuale\u201d, tha Lekatari.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
T\u00eb gjitha deklaratat q\u00eb ne b\u00ebjm\u00eb n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, aktivizmi q\u00eb un\u00eb b\u00ebj, \u00ebsht\u00eb e nj\u00ebjta gj\u00eb n\u00ebse k\u00ebto deklarata q\u00eb ne b\u00ebjm\u00eb, kjo tronditje ose kjo… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-27538","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lajme"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27538","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=27538"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27538\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":27540,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/27538\/revisions\/27540"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=27538"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=27538"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=27538"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}