Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb letra q\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb ka d\u00ebrguar n\u00eb redaksi, ku tregon se nuk i p\u00eblqen familja e burrit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo thot\u00eb se d\u00ebshiron ta marr\u00eb burrin tek familja e vet, por do t\u00eb dij\u00eb mendimin tuaj se si t\u00eb reagoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje t\u00eb gjithave. M\u2019u mbush mendja q\u00eb edhe un\u00eb t\u00eb shkruaj historin\u00eb time n\u00eb median tuaj. Do t\u00eb doja t\u00eb ndaja me ju problemin tim dhe dua t\u2019ju p\u00ebrg\u00ebzoj p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, sepse k\u00ebto histori jan\u00eb si nj\u00eb lloj terapie p\u00ebr ne. Kam nj\u00eb problem me vjehrr\u00ebn time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Me aq sa kam lexuar kam kuptuar se ka shum\u00eb vajza t\u00eb reja q\u00eb kan\u00eb probleme me vjehrrat e tyre. Por n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb kam lexuar histori nusesh t\u00eb cilat ankohen kot m\u00eb kot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00ebse vjehrra kujdeset shum\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, ato ankohen pse kujdeset, n\u00ebse nuk kujdeset ato thon\u00eb pse nuk kujdeset. Duket sikur \u00ebsht\u00eb e shkruar q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia vjeh\u00ebrr-nuse t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb keq. Un\u00eb p\u00ebr vete jam vajz\u00eb, teze, kunat\u00eb, mot\u00ebr dhe nuse, n\u00ebn\u00eb ende jo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nuk e di se si do t\u00eb reagoj kur t\u00eb kem f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por nuk mendoj se do t\u00eb reagoj ashp\u00ebr ndaj vjehrr\u00ebs si disa nuse q\u00eb njoh. Si vajz\u00eb jam normale, kam pasur edhe un\u00eb problemet e mia m\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebn time dhe mjaft madje, sepse kemi karaktere t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt, por asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk mbajm\u00eb inat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Menj\u00ebher\u00eb kalon, sepse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna dhe gjithmon\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqet m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb se sa nj\u00eb vjeh\u00ebrr. \u00cbsht\u00eb normale. Por vjehrra ime n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb q\u00eb po i b\u00ebn gj\u00ebrat sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb ka mund\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jam un\u00eb ajo q\u00eb jam shum\u00eb k\u00ebrkuese dhe nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb ndryshimet. Fakti \u00ebsht\u00eb se ne jemi nj\u00eb familje e bashkuar, fal\u00eb gjyshes sime, drekojm\u00eb pothuajse \u00e7do fundjav\u00eb me kush\u00ebrinjt\u00eb, jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebs mosh\u00eb, me f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe sa her\u00eb q\u00eb takohemi k\u00ebnaqemi shum\u00eb me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb si ne, m\u00eb e dashur, m\u00eb e shoq\u00ebrueshme dhe vjen me qejf n\u00eb drekat dhe darkat tona t\u00eb fundjav\u00ebs. N\u00ebse u zgjata shum\u00eb dhe nuk e kuptuat deri tani se ku q\u00ebndron problemi po e p\u00ebrmbledh me pak fjal\u00eb. Mua nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqen m\u00ebnyra se si jeton familja e burrit tim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dua t\u00eb marr burrin tim dhe t\u00eb jetoj pran\u00eb familjes sime. K\u00ebrkoj shum\u00eb? Mendoj se jo sepse n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit kushdo do t\u00eb mendonte se t\u00eb jetosh me dashuri \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb jetosh ashtu si e b\u00ebjn\u00eb ata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Problemet kan\u00eb filluar q\u00eb n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb ata donin t\u00eb prishnin tradit\u00ebn ton\u00eb duke na ftuara ata n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb. I kam refuzuar nj\u00eb her\u00eb dhe nuk e di n\u00ebse do na ftojn\u00eb s\u00ebrish. Sinqerisht nuk dua q\u00eb kjo t\u00eb ndodh, sepse n\u00ebse i refuzoj s\u00ebrish, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia do t\u00eb p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsohet. E di q\u00eb do t\u00eb thoni se jam shum\u00eb kapri\u00e7oze dhe nuk q\u00ebndroj me k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00eb por k\u00ebto jan\u00eb d\u00ebshirat e mia dhe p\u00ebr d\u00ebshira askush nuk mund t\u00eb ma heq t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb letra q\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb ka d\u00ebrguar n\u00eb redaksi, ku tregon se nuk i p\u00eblqen familja e burrit. Ajo thot\u00eb se d\u00ebshiron ta marr\u00eb burrin tek… <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-26060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lajme"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=26060"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26060\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26063,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26060\/revisions\/26063"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=26060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=26060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=26060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}