{"id":25005,"date":"2025-05-07T15:44:31","date_gmt":"2025-05-07T15:44:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=25005"},"modified":"2025-05-07T15:44:35","modified_gmt":"2025-05-07T15:44:35","slug":"25005","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=25005","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cVija re q\u00eb telefonin e mbante pas vetes, nuk ja jepte m\u00eb djalit, filloi ta mbante me d ridhje, n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e pand emis\u00eb ra shum\u00eb n\u00eb sy, m\u00eb \u00e7oi drejt bindjes se ishte dikush tjet\u00ebr midis nesh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I p\u00ebrlotur ai p\u00ebrshkruan dhe momentin m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballjes me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn n\u00eb der\u00ebn e nj\u00eb apartamenti me qira, aty zbuloi edhe se bashk\u00ebshortja e trad htonte me nj\u00eb person t\u00eb cilin e njihte: \u201cNgriva p\u00ebr momentin, m\u00eb nxor\u00ebn shum\u00eb shpejt q\u00eb andej, gjith\u00e7ka n\u00eb krevat ishte filmuar, m\u00eb nxor\u00ebn shum\u00eb shpejt q\u00eb t\u00eb shm angnin k onfl iktin\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fajin thot\u00eb se e ka vet\u00eb pasi punonte shum\u00eb dh\u00eb nuk arrinte dot t\u2019i q\u00ebndronte af\u00ebr asaj. Tani jetojn\u00eb s\u00ebrish bashk\u00eb, e fali dhe arsyeja jan\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. 42-vje\u00e7ari pohon gjithashtu se pa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt s\u2019mund t\u00eb jetonte kurr\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse do t\u00eb divo rcohej at\u00ebher\u00eb gjykata do ia jepte kujdestarin\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs. Psikologia Arjana Mu\u00e7aj n\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr \u201cJeta pa filt\u00ebr\u201d ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb lidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb fenomen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ajo shprehet se: \u201cN\u00eb dit\u00ebt q\u00eb po jetojm\u00eb tr adhtia po kthehet n\u00eb normale, duke dashur t\u00eb prekin modernen \u00e7iftet e reja harrojn\u00eb se n\u00ebse ndodh nj\u00eb tradhti kjo tregon se do t\u00eb humbas\u00eb besimi dhe humbja e besimit ndaj partnerit do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se her\u00eb pas here ti t\u00eb jesh n\u00eb dyshim n\u00eb lidhje me marr\u00eb dh\u00eb nien q\u00eb ke me t\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa avokati Jordan Daci sjell\u00eb n\u00eb vemendje raste kur prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb ego izmit t\u00eb tyre kan\u00eb shkuar deri atje sa kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb okular\u00eb t\u00eb raporteve int ime t\u00eb prindit tr adhtar duke sh kaktuar k\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb tr aum\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ai thot\u00eb se: \u201c\u00c7\u00ebshtja e tra dhtis\u00eb mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikohet vet\u00ebm kur p\u00ebrfshin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. n\u00ebse f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebrdoren nga nj\u00eb prind kundrejt prindit tjet\u00ebr duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb k ri m q\u00eb b\u00ebhet ndaj f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. P\u00ebr mua ai prind q\u00eb e p\u00ebrdor f\u00ebmij\u00ebn dhe e vendos n\u00eb rrethana tejet t\u00eb r\u00ebnda emocionale, ai nuk mund ta ushtroj\u00eb kujdestarin\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tilla raste\u201d. Sipas tij tradhtia bashk\u00ebshortore nuk ka asnj\u00eb ndryshim nga arsyet e tjera p\u00ebr sa i p\u00ebrket di vorcit. 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