{"id":23487,"date":"2025-04-09T11:01:30","date_gmt":"2025-04-09T11:01:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=23487"},"modified":"2025-04-09T11:01:32","modified_gmt":"2025-04-09T11:01:32","slug":"23487","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=23487","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Pjes\u00eb nga Intervista n\u00eb \u201cThurje\u201d:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jonida: Doja t\u00eb flisnim pak p\u00ebr femrat. Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e rinis\u00eb tuaj ka qen\u00eb n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e Enverit, nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb periudh\u00ebn e demokracis\u00eb, a mund t\u00eb na thuash si ka ndryshuar femra para 90\u2019 pas 90\u2019, p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket inteligjenc\u00ebs, bukuris\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ngjela: P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket bukuris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i nj\u00ebjti kualitet, ndoshta \u00ebsht\u00eb me shekuj k\u00ebshtu, sepse un\u00eb e kam ndjekur me v\u00ebmendje bukurin\u00eb tuaj, por p\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket nocionit t\u00eb liberalizimit, liberal n\u00eb kuptimin e mir\u00eb t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs, emancipimit, elita e femrave t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs, ishte pothuajse si sot, n\u00eb kuptimin e emancipimit dhe antimaskilizimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nuk kishte beteja, se nuk kishte liri, beteja ka filluar tani. Ajo q\u00eb kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re me v\u00ebmendje \u00ebsht\u00eb se at\u00ebhere nuk ishte shum\u00eb e hapur dashuria paramartesore, ishte dashuri plus martes\u00eb, ose dashuria baraz me martes\u00eb. Dashuri q\u00eb d\u00ebshtonin dhe q\u00eb ishin shpallur nuk ishin shum\u00eb komode, por Tirana nuk e ndjente deri n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb, qytetet e tjera, po. P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket ndryshimit \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb femra erdhi ta shumonte bukurin\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto 20 vite te fundit, sot teza ime q\u00eb ju them avokateve q\u00eb punojn\u00eb me mua, n\u00eb kuptimin e stafit, mendoj se bukuria \u00ebsht\u00eb sheshit, intelekti \u00ebsht\u00eb i rrall\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jonida: Ju madje keni th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb femra shqiptare \u00ebsht\u00eb me e bukura n\u00eb bot\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ngjela: Po \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe un\u00eb ju jap prova p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Sot, po t\u00eb hap\u00ebsh n\u00eb Google, princesha Fevzia \u00ebsht\u00eb femra m\u00eb e bukur e t\u00eb gjitha koh\u00ebrave, e ka shpallur Hollywood para disa vitesh, \u00ebsht\u00eb princesha shqiptare e oborrit t\u00eb Egjipit dhe e deklaron vet\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shqiptare. M\u00eb pas Irena Papas \u00ebsht\u00eb shqiptare, ti i ngjan pak asaj, e kam fjal\u00ebn te syri skenik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb kam biseduar me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb kan\u00eb ardhur k\u00ebtu, m\u00eb kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb bukuria \u00ebshte padiskutueshme, klasi ende nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nivelet e duhura.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jonida: \u00c7far\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr shqiptare q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb klas?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ngjela: Nuk e ka n\u00eb dor\u00eb femra, mashkulli nuk i krijon mondanitet, mungon jeta mondane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jonida: N\u00ebse marim mashkullin shqiptar, sa e meriton ai femr\u00ebn shqiptare?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ngjela: Pyetja \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, mund t\u00eb ta them kur t\u00eb dalim jasht\u00eb, por po jap nj\u00eb fakt t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, nj\u00eb avokat m\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb shoqen q\u00eb vinte nga nj\u00eb vend i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm per\u00ebndimor, m\u00eb mori n\u00eb telefon e me tha do vij n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, dua t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmosh, ajo e shoqja kishte marr\u00eb nj\u00eb fond p\u00ebr t\u00eb investiguar student\u00ebt shqiptar\u00eb, flas 4-5 vite m\u00eb par\u00eb, un\u00eb i thash\u00eb student\u00ebt shqiptar\u00eb i ke t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb kafene, kalo te rruga e Elbasanit , te Treni, te Materniteti, dhe te Sheshi N\u00ebn\u00eb Tereza, n\u00ebp\u00ebr lokale etj, etj, detaje si k\u00ebto. Mbasi mbaruam bised\u00ebn, i thash\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebveshje, dua pasi t\u00eb mbaroni t\u00eb vini t\u00eb m\u00eb thoni di\u00e7ka rreth rezultateve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ata e kishin mbaruar dhe erdh\u00ebn pas 10 dit\u00ebsh. Midis t\u00eb tjerash m\u00eb tha gjet\u00ebm diferenc\u00eb moshe, midis vajz\u00ebs dhe djalit, minimumi kan\u00eb diference 12-13 vjet, femra \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe, m\u00eb b\u00ebri p\u00ebrshtypje sepse i njoh pyetjet p\u00ebr mosh\u00ebn nga profesioni, si e konstatuat i pyeta?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gruaja m\u00eb tha se meshkujt kan\u00eb humor infantil, t\u00eb nivelit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, kurse femrat rrin\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitura. Ndodh si fenomen, femra ka diferenc\u00eb n\u00eb gjith\u00eb bot\u00ebn, por jo kaq t\u00eb madhe. N\u00eb nj\u00eb bised\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebra me Kadaren\u00eb, i thash\u00eb q\u00eb qytet\u00ebrimi vjen nga gruaja, ai tha \u2018do t\u00eb na ndodh\u00eb si n\u00eb Rusi\u2019, ai ka q\u00ebn\u00eb student atje, dhe ata e kan\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb diferenc\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jonida: Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, ajo q\u00eb m\u00eb erdhi nd\u00ebrmend \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shprehje juaja p\u00ebr femr\u00ebn. Ju thoni, n\u00ebse deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 30 vje\u00e7 nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb si ngjan gruas do mbetet p\u00ebrher\u00eb vajz\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ngjela: Shprehja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cBukurin\u00eb nuk e ka vajza, por gruaja\u201d. Q\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha mikeshat e mia, sa jan\u00eb vajza, s\u2019ju p\u00eblqen kjo gj\u00eb, kur b\u00ebhen gra m\u00eb thon\u00eb \u2018po e di q\u00eb e ke t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u2019. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb kryesorja, po duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb grua. Shprehja e dyt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cNe s\u2019kemi grua\u201d, p\u00ebrjashtimi nuk rr\u00ebzon rregullin. \u201cE bukur deri n\u00eb fund\u201d, n\u00eb \u00e7do etap\u00eb t\u00eb vet duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb e bukur, madje kreshendo, bukurit\u00eb e m\u00ebdha na e kan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shembull. M\u00eb e bukur 40 vje\u00e7 sesa 20, 21, dhe un\u00eb ju them atyre t\u00eb njohurave t\u00eb mia, b\u00ebjini yzmetin, ta keni deri n\u00eb fund\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jonida: Meq\u00eb po flasim p\u00ebr bukurin\u00eb fem\u00ebrore, s\u00eb fundmi \u00ebsht\u00eb fenomen q\u00eb shum\u00eb femra b\u00ebjn\u00eb operacione plastike p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar imazhin, di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk ndihen komode me veten duke u kthyer n\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm me nj\u00ebra- tjetr\u00ebn, si e shihni k\u00ebt\u00eb fenomen?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ngjela: Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb do rritet shkenca e nd\u00ebrhyrjes kirurgjikale, aq m\u00eb masive do jet\u00eb, bukurin\u00eb e duan t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, po t\u2019ju them di\u00e7ka, kam pas marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pune me 2-3 avokate, dhe kur vinin t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitura n\u00eb pun\u00eb i thoja marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia m\u00eb e keqe \u00ebsht\u00eb me rrug\u00ebn, po s\u2019t\u00eb pan\u00eb ty n\u00eb rrug\u00eb ti vdes, po un\u00eb nuk shoh q\u00eb ty s\u2019t\u00eb shohin n\u00eb rrug\u00eb ndaj kij mendjen k\u00ebtu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u00ebt\u00eb e k\u00ebrkon \u00e7do fem\u00ebr, ato q\u00eb se kan\u00eb, e ndjejn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb, ato q\u00eb e kan\u00eb e kan\u00eb krenari sepse ky jet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fenomen estetik dhe mendor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Por, fenomeni estetik \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukura q\u00eb tenton t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, tani t\u00eb vijm\u00eb tek e bukura q\u00eb nuk tenton t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn, por \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar n\u00eb laborator apo sall\u00eb operacioni, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb se e d\u00ebmton at\u00eb qe e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb se m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e pranueshme se e papranueshme estetikisht.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jonida: M\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebto p\u00ebrshkrime, detaje p\u00ebr femr\u00ebn, pse nuk keni preferuar t\u00eb martoheni, t\u00eb lini trash\u00ebgimtar\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ngjela: Nuk dua q\u00eb t\u2019ja injektoj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve mendimin tim, por shkurt po ju them. 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