{"id":23418,"date":"2025-04-08T09:16:14","date_gmt":"2025-04-08T09:16:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=23418"},"modified":"2025-04-08T09:16:16","modified_gmt":"2025-04-08T09:16:16","slug":"23418","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=23418","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Problemi i burrave t\u00eb martuar \u00ebsht\u00eb se ata nuk marrin k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e d\u00ebshiruar gjat\u00eb inti mitetit dhe tradhtojn\u00eb. Fakti q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua pranon privat\u00ebsin\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e aft\u00eb t\u2019i jap\u00eb k\u00ebn aq\u00ebsi mashkullit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb jam p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me burra t\u00eb martuar q\u00eb prej mosh\u00ebs 18-vje\u00e7are. Jam 29 vje\u00e7e tani. Nuk kam punuar asnj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime. Jetoj n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00eb qyteti, n\u00eb nj\u00eb apartament t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Tani kam kurajon q\u00eb t\u00eb them se jam \u201cdashnore\u201d. Un\u00eb takoj meshkuj t\u00eb martuar dhe ata m\u00eb mb\u00ebshtesin. Dikur gj\u00ebrat ishin ndryshe, por jo tani.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrse meshkujt kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dashnore?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ka mund\u00ebsi se ata nuk e p\u00eblqejn\u00eb monotonin\u00eb. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00ebse nj\u00eb mashkull zem\u00ebrohet n\u00eb pun\u00eb dhe ndjen impulse t\u00eb ashpra, ai vjen tek un\u00eb dhe e transmeton k\u00ebt\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebd h\u00ebnien se ksuale. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjest f\u00ebminor nga ana e tyre, por un\u00eb e pranoj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrse ata m\u00eb zgjedhin mua?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kur kan\u00eb probleme n\u00eb pun\u00eb ose sht\u00ebpi, ngush\u00ebllohen tek un\u00eb. Nuk po them n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e mir\u00eb apo e keqe, ata thjesht e b\u00ebjn\u00eb sepse jan\u00eb t\u00eb dominuar nga instiktet dhe d\u00ebshirat. M\u00eb th\u00ebrrasin dhe un\u00eb i them: \u201cHajde nes\u00ebr tek un\u00eb, do t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatis di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr dark\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj t\u00eb harrosh t\u00eb gjitha problemet.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Vijn\u00eb tek un\u00eb sepse kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr tu \u00e7lodhur. Duhet t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar dhe grat\u00eb e tyre nuk kan\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet in time b\u00ebhen t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme dhe pa pasion, prandaj vijn\u00eb tek un\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb nuk kujdesem, por e fsheh<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb me shum\u00eb burra t\u00eb martuar. Disa prej tyre m\u00eb donin m\u00eb shum\u00eb se grat\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb dashura. Disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb e besonin k\u00ebt\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse nuk ishte e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Por shumica i donin grat\u00eb pasi in timiteti yn\u00eb nuk kishte dashuri apo ndjenj\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kur lidhem me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb, ai m\u00eb tregon sa shum\u00eb e do dhe respekton gruan e tij. Si fillim, kjo gj\u00eb m\u00eb nevri koste. Un\u00eb mendoj se vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb hipokrit mund t\u00eb thot\u00eb se e do gruan dhe m\u00eb pas e tra dhton. M\u00eb von\u00eb e kuptova se e b\u00ebjn\u00eb p\u00ebr disa arsye t\u00eb tjera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrse meshkujt tradhtojn\u00eb?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb sepse grat\u00eb nuk i d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb dhe k\u00ebtu jam dakord me ta. Por ndonj\u00ebehr\u00eb, sepse ata jan\u00eb ende f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dhe martes\u00ebn e tyre.<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Problemi i burrave t\u00eb martuar \u00ebsht\u00eb se ata nuk marrin k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e d\u00ebshiruar gjat\u00eb inti mitetit dhe tradhtojn\u00eb. 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