{"id":18766,"date":"2024-06-09T03:30:59","date_gmt":"2024-06-09T03:30:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=18766"},"modified":"2024-06-09T03:31:01","modified_gmt":"2024-06-09T03:31:01","slug":"raimonda-moisiu-gra-dhe-vajza-divorci-nuk-eshte-turp-por-liria-dhe-zgjedhja-jote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=18766","title":{"rendered":"Raimonda Moisiu: Gra dhe vajza, divorci nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb turp por liria dhe zgjedhja jote!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Shkrimtarja Raimonda Moisiu ishte n\u00eb Shqip nga Rudina Xhunga, p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar jet\u00ebn e saj pas emigrimit n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb dhe sfidat q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kalonte si nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e divorcuar me 3 f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zonja Moisiu dha nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr fenomenet sociale, si\u00e7 ishte dhe vet\u00ebflijimi i Alma Arrazit me 3 f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb lum\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cDhuna ndaj grave m\u00eb ka shqet\u00ebsuar shum\u00eb. Sidomos ajo tragjedia e Shkodr\u00ebs m\u00eb tronditi shum\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk e justifikoj n\u00ebn\u00ebn, ajo nuk duhet ta kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb veprim. Ajo mund t\u00eb kishte edhe dhun\u00eb psikologjike, edhe dhun\u00eb fizike, por jo sa t\u00eb arrinte deri n\u00eb at\u00eb faz\u00eb sa t\u00eb sakrifikonte f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Sepse f\u00ebmija nuk sakrifikohet. Ajo t\u00eb gjente shum\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb tjera, ka zgjidhje plot. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb kemi qen\u00eb n\u00eb pozitat e saj, por nuk mund t\u00eb hakmerremi te f\u00ebmija. Prind\u00ebrit le t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb duan midis tyre, por f\u00ebmij\u00ebn kurr\u00eb mos e l\u00ebsho. Aq m\u00eb tep\u00ebr t\u2019i mbys\u00ebsh f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u00eb divorcohesh nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb turp, \u00ebsht\u00eb liria dhe zgjedhja jote. Prind\u00ebrit le t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb duan me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, por f\u00ebmij\u00ebn mos ta l\u00ebshojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb. Nuk duhen sakrifikuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, \u00e7do njeri ka sprova. Duhet t\u00eb diferencojm\u00eb prind\u00ebrimin nga problemet mes \u00e7iftit. Sa kemi hequr n\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb, t\u2019ua nxirrnim f\u00ebmij\u00ebve inatin? Jo. Ne duhet t\u2019i marrim n\u00eb mbrojtje f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Nuk m\u00eb duket arsye ajo q\u00eb thon\u00eb se i b\u00ebri dhun\u00eb psikologjike. Dhun\u00eb psikologjike \u00e7do grua kalon, \u00e7do dit\u00eb, \u00e7do or\u00eb e \u00e7do minut\u00eb. Qindra e mij\u00ebra gra n\u00eb bot\u00eb. Nuk mund t\u00eb sakrifikosh f\u00ebmij\u00ebt sepse pe burrin me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. E pe? Mundohu ta kalosh me vete, q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt mos mbeten me kok\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb. Mundohu t\u2019u flas\u00ebsh p\u00ebr mir\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve p\u00ebr baban\u00eb edhe vazhdo rrug\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Un\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb kam b\u00ebr\u00eb me baban\u00eb e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Un\u00eb i kam respektuar njer\u00ebzit babait t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mi, sepse ishin rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mi. Vajza e mori baban\u00eb e solli k\u00ebtu n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb, jeton n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi m\u00eb vete. Vjen n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb k\u00ebtu te djali dhe un\u00eb i b\u00ebj kafen\u00eb, tamam si nj\u00eb mik. Kur e mori vajza m\u00eb pyeti n\u00ebse jam dakord q\u00eb po e merr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb: &#8220;Patjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb babai juaj. Un\u00eb do ta respektoj\u00eb. K\u00ebtu do e rregulloni ju, ku do rrij\u00eb ai!\u201d Un\u00eb e ndihmova dhe p\u00ebr letrat, edhe kur vjen k\u00ebtu e kam respektuar. Ha nj\u00eb drek\u00eb, dark\u00eb, fle, ik\u00ebn. Un\u00eb e respektoj tamam si mik, si shok, babai i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mi. Njeriu ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb toleroj\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prandaj nuk e justifikoj veprimin q\u00eb b\u00ebri Alma. Ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e para. K\u00ebtu n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ndahen edhe p\u00ebr luks. 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