{"id":17278,"date":"2024-05-08T22:01:40","date_gmt":"2024-05-08T22:01:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=17278"},"modified":"2024-05-08T22:01:41","modified_gmt":"2024-05-08T22:01:41","slug":"me-thoshte-femijet-e-mi-nuk-dua-ti-gezoje-dikush-tjeter-babai-i-alma-arrazit-erdgysi-bashkejetonte-me-nje-tjeter-i-thosha-lere-por","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=17278","title":{"rendered":"\u201cM\u00eb thoshte f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi nuk dua t\u2019i g\u00ebzoj\u00eb dikush tjet\u00ebr\u201d, babai i Alma Arrazit: Erdgysi bashk\u00ebjetonte me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, i thosha l\u00ebre, por\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n<p>Babai i Alma Arrazit, q\u00eb u mbyt n\u00eb lumin Buna, s\u00eb bashku me tre f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, tregon se vajza e tij dhunohej psikologjikisht nga bashk\u00ebshorti, q\u00eb e tradhtonte.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb nj\u00eb intervist\u00eb p\u00ebr \u201cTop News\u201d, ai sqaroi se 39-vje\u00e7arja nuk ka pasur probleme t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor, nd\u00ebrsa problemet n\u00eb \u00e7ift kan\u00eb nisur pasi jan\u00eb kthyer nga Gjermania.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFjal\u00ebt p\u00ebr probleme mendore nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, e deklaroj me p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb time. Sikur t\u00eb ishte e till\u00eb, im shoq si e mori p\u00ebr grua. Edhe n\u00ebse s\u2019e ka ditur n\u00eb fillim, do e kuptonte m\u00eb von\u00eb. Si jetoi 10 vjet dhe b\u00ebri 3 f\u00ebmij\u00eb me vajz\u00ebn time, n\u00ebse vajza do ishte n\u00eb at\u00eb gjendje q\u00eb pretendojn\u00eb. Nuk kam marr\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ila\u00e7e depresioni p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn, un\u00eb kam qen\u00eb edhe n\u00eb Gjermani kur ka qen\u00eb vajza me bashk\u00ebshortin atje. Kan\u00eb kaluar mir\u00eb. Pasi u kthyen, vajza shprehej se ai ka nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, shkonte me t\u00eb tjera, filloi t\u00eb jepte shenjat e veta, derisa arriti n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje. M\u00eb tha bashk\u00ebjeton me nj\u00eb goc\u00eb t\u00eb re, fle n\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb m\u00eb vete me tre f\u00ebmij\u00ebt\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Babai pretendon se i ka k\u00ebrkuar vajz\u00ebs t\u00eb ndahet, por Alma nuk donte t\u00eb largohej nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI thash\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb pret m\u00eb, ka mbaruar \u00e7do gj\u00eb. I jam lutur, lere se ka mbaruar. Ai i tha nuk t\u00eb dua, \u00e7far\u00eb pret m\u00eb. Ik. M\u00eb tha f\u00ebmij\u00ebt nuk i le dot, nuk jetoj dot pa f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Ai nuk ia linte f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Pa f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk rrinte dot, at\u00eb e donte jasht\u00eb mase. Aty ka marr\u00eb vendimin p\u00ebr t\u00eb flijuar jet\u00ebn e vet\u00eb dhe t\u00eb tre engj\u00ebjve.<\/p>\n<p>Nuk m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr dhun\u00eb fizike, por dhun\u00eb psikologjike ka pasur q\u00eb nga momenti kur ai ka nisur nj\u00eb lidhje jasht\u00ebmartesore. Ajo m\u00eb thoshte nuk dua q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi nuk dua t\u2019i g\u00ebzoj\u00eb dikush tjet\u00ebr, i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb un\u00eb, do t\u2019i rris un\u00eb. 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