{"id":14808,"date":"2024-03-14T14:52:08","date_gmt":"2024-03-14T14:52:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=14808"},"modified":"2024-03-14T14:52:09","modified_gmt":"2024-03-14T14:52:09","slug":"hoxha-nuk-u-martova-per-pasion-e-epsh-por-per-humanizem-e-strehova-nje-vajze","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=14808","title":{"rendered":"Hoxha: Nuk u martova p\u00ebr pasion e epsh, por p\u00ebr humaniz\u00ebm \u2013 e strehova nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n<p>T\u00eb nderuar besimtar\u00eb, familjar\u00eb dhe miq t\u00eb mi,<\/p>\n<p>Ju q\u00eb keni par\u00eb emrin tim t\u00eb lakohet k\u00ebto dita dhe jeni shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb ngjarje q\u00eb po raportohet n\u00eb media, dua t\u2019ju informoj shkurt se e shoh q\u00eb m\u00ebnyra si raportohet n\u00eb media ka tendenca p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebmtuar imazhin tim, dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb imazhin e fes\u00eb islame, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn disa tentojn\u00eb ta paraqesin n\u00eb nj\u00eb drit\u00eb t\u00eb keqe.<\/p>\n<p>Dashamir\u00ebt e mi i p\u00ebrkujtoj q\u00eb feja dhe morali im nuk ka ra, nuk ka l\u00ebvizur nuk kam shkelur asgj\u00eb nga parimet e fes\u00eb. Madje edhe k\u00ebt\u00eb dijeni se: nuk jam martuar p\u00ebr inati t\u00eb askujt e as p\u00ebr t\u00eb shuar ndonj\u00eb pasion timin. Po t\u00eb ishte martesa e dyt\u00eb e buruar nga epshi dhe pasioni, do ta b\u00ebja m\u00eb her\u00ebt dhe me ndonj\u00eb grua t\u00eb famshme e t\u00eb shquar p\u00ebr lakmit\u00eb njer\u00ebzore. Madje edhe p\u00ebr mosh\u00ebn do ta martoja dikend q\u00eb sapo i ka mbushur 18 vjet.<\/p>\n<p>Dijeni t\u00eb dashur miq se martesa ime \u00ebsht\u00eb krejtsisht p\u00ebr motive fetare e humanitare, p\u00ebr ta strehuar nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e kishte g\u00ebzuar m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e kujdesit p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin dhe edukimin e saj n\u00eb familjen e saj. Andaj, mos e keni dert fen\u00eb time p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, sepse nuk kam lajthitur. Lutem un\u00eb dhe lutuni edhe ju p\u00ebr mua p\u00ebr vendosm\u00ebri e stabilitet n\u00eb fe, deri n\u00eb vdekje.<\/p>\n<p>Nga detyra ime si imam, pastaj si arsimtar i l\u00ebnd\u00ebs fetare kur kam qen\u00eb, kam pasur nx\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb moshave t\u00eb reja si dhe vet kam qen\u00eb m\u00eb i ri e me m\u00eb pak p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb, por nuk kam pasur asnj\u00ebher\u00eb asnj\u00eb afer\u00eb apo drejtim t\u00eb gishtit kah un\u00eb. Kam trajtuar pacient\u00eb dhe paciente t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm me mosha, karaktere, karakteristika, tipare, pozita shoq\u00ebrore, komunitete etj. nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmet, por asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ka pasur asnj\u00eb skandal me asnj\u00eb paciente, nga mij\u00ebra njer\u00ebz q\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb vizituar. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ka pasur ankesa kund\u00ebr meje, as nga familjar\u00ebt as nga ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb ardhur p\u00ebr trajtim, absolutisht nga askush!<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr fen\u00eb Islame ligj\u00ebroj dhe nga ajo q\u00eb e flas, gjithnj\u00eb e k\u00ebshilloj veten s\u00eb pari, pastaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Nuk e kam fen\u00eb nj\u00eb profesion t\u00eb rastit, por nga dashuria e kultivuar p\u00ebr Islamin nga baballar\u00ebt e mi, jam b\u00eb hoxh\u00eb dhe m\u00ebsues e predikues i fes\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb besimi im dhe karakteri im, i pandryshuesh\u00ebm deri m\u00eb tani. Un\u00eb martes\u00ebn e kam b\u00eb konform rregullave t\u00eb fes\u00eb, duke marr p\u00eblqimin e babait t\u00eb vajz\u00ebs, i cili ka pranuar q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb jap\u00eb doren e vajz\u00ebs s\u00eb tij, por pas disa jav\u00ebsh \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb pishman, pasi kemi lidh kuror\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb reagimet e grupit q\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb po punon kund\u00ebr meje, duket qart\u00eb se ka tendenca t\u00eb tjera, me gjas\u00eb t\u00eb shtyera nga jasht\u00eb fshatit dhe p\u00ebr interesa antifetare dhe antikomb\u00ebtare. Shihet qart\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebrkesa e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb larguar nga xhamia, e jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndaluar vajz\u00ebn. Imagjinoni q\u00eb njer\u00ebz kinse intelektual\u00eb, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb, marrin guximin t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyjn\u00eb n\u00eb vendimet e nj\u00eb vajze 24 vje\u00e7are, duke shkelur k\u00ebshtu parimet fetare, ligjore, familjare e besa edhe kanunore. Kush ua dha atyre at\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, kur nuk jan\u00eb as t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit e vajz\u00ebs?<\/p>\n<p>Martesa ime, jeta ime private dhe gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb publike m\u00eb takojn\u00eb mua dhe ato i mbaj p\u00ebr vete. Nuk lejoj q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb ngriten mbi kurrizin tim, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb padrejt\u00eb. T\u00eb drejt\u00ebn time do ta mbroj me \u00e7do mjet juridik q\u00eb mund ta posedoj dhe keqb\u00ebr\u00ebsit do t\u00eb demaskohen.<\/p>\n<p>Tendencat p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb zhurm\u00eb vijn\u00eb vet\u00ebm kur hoxhallar\u00ebt apo besimtar\u00ebt jan\u00eb n\u00eb pyetje, me q\u00ebllimin e tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb na njollosur neve edhe fen\u00eb rrjedhimisht. Un\u00eb di q\u00eb para Allahut jam i past\u00ebr, dhe t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto kan\u00eb ndodhur jan\u00eb me miratimin e fes\u00eb sime, t\u00eb familjes s\u00eb vajz\u00ebs dhe familjes sime.<\/p>\n<p>Pra, ju lutem qet\u00ebsohuni dhe na l\u00ebni t\u00eb qet\u00eb edhe ne!<\/p>\n<p>Me respekt,<\/p>\n<p>Vesim Avdiu<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u00eb nderuar besimtar\u00eb, familjar\u00eb dhe miq t\u00eb mi, Ju q\u00eb keni par\u00eb emrin tim t\u00eb lakohet k\u00ebto dita dhe jeni shqet\u00ebsuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb ngjarje q\u00eb po raportohet&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14809,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14808","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14808","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14808"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14808\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/14809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14808"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14808"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14808"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}