{"id":13618,"date":"2024-02-21T05:41:14","date_gmt":"2024-02-21T05:41:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=13618"},"modified":"2024-02-21T05:41:16","modified_gmt":"2024-02-21T05:41:16","slug":"pse-njerezit-te-tjere-duan-por-me-te-tjere-martohen-e-pyeti-studenti-mesuesi-i-jep-pergjigjen-e-jetes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=13618","title":{"rendered":"\u201cPse njer\u00ebzit, t\u00eb tjer\u00eb duan por me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb martohen?\u201d, e pyeti studenti\u2026 M\u00ebsuesi i jep p\u00ebrgjigjen e jet\u00ebs!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n<p>Nj\u00eb student e pyeti Profesorin e tij, \u201cPse njer\u00ebzit shpesh martohen me nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr nga ai q\u00eb duan?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Profesori iu p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201cP\u00ebr t\u2019iu p\u00ebrgjigjur pyetjes t\u00ebnde, shko n\u00eb ar\u00ebn me grur\u00eb dhe zgjidh kalliun m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe kthehu s\u00ebrish. Por rregulli \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ti mund t\u00eb kalosh n\u00ebp\u00ebr ar\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb dhe nuk mund t\u00eb kthehesh prapa.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Studenti shkoi n\u00eb ar\u00ebn me grur\u00eb, shikoi n\u00eb rreshtin e par\u00eb, pa nj\u00eb kalli t\u00eb madh q\u00eb i p\u00eblqeu menj\u00ebher\u00eb, por ai pyeti veten se ndoshta ka ndonj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madh m\u00eb tej. Pastaj ai pa nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb madh, por p\u00ebrs\u00ebri ai mendoi se ndoshta ka nj\u00eb edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb madh m\u00eb tutje.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00eb von\u00eb, kur mbaroi m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjysm\u00ebn, filloi t\u00eb kuptonte se kallinjt\u00eb nuk ishin aq t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj sa ata q\u00eb la n\u00eb fillim, ai filloi t\u00eb kuptonte se kishte humbur m\u00eb t\u00eb mirin n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb nj\u00eb kalliu m\u00eb t\u00eb madh. P\u00ebrfundimisht ai u kthye tek Profesori duar bosh, sepse thjesht nuk mund t\u2019ia falte vetes q\u00eb kishte hequr dor\u00eb nga kalliu m\u00eb i mir\u00eb dhe ia p\u00ebrshkroi atij at\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhi.<\/p>\n<p>Profesori i tha, \u201cTi ke vazhduar duke k\u00ebrkuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa ke l\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb ikin m\u00eb t\u00eb mirat dhe m\u00eb von\u00eb kur e kuptove se e humbe at\u00eb, thjesht nuk mund t\u00eb ktheheheshe. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gabim i b\u00ebr\u00eb shpesh nga njer\u00ebz q\u00eb bien n\u00eb dashuri dhe humbin personin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kishin n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre\u201d. Studenti iu kthye dhe e pyeti, \u201cA do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo, q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb biesh n\u00eb dashuri?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Profesori u p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201cJo i dashur, kushdo mund t\u00eb bie n\u00eb dashuri n\u00ebse gjen nj\u00eb person t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm. Por, sapo t\u00eb biesh n\u00eb dashuri, nuk duhet ta l\u00ebsh kurr\u00eb at\u00eb person p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb zem\u00ebrimit, egos ose krahasimit me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cPo si mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb duke u martuar me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr nga ai q\u00eb duan?\u201d \u2013 pyeti studenti. Profesori tha: \u201cP\u00ebr t\u2019iu p\u00ebrgjigjur pyetjes t\u00ebnde, shko n\u00eb ar\u00ebn me mis\u00ebr dhe zgjidh misrin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh dhe kthehu. Por rregulli \u00ebsht\u00eb i nj\u00ebjt\u00eb si m\u00eb par\u00eb, mund t\u00eb kalosh n\u00ebp\u00ebr to vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb dhe nuk mund t\u00eb kthehesh prapa.\u201d Studenti shkoi n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e misrit, k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb ai ishte i kujdessh\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrs\u00ebriste gabimin e m\u00ebparsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p>Kur arriti n\u00eb mes t\u00eb fush\u00ebs, ai mori nj\u00eb mis\u00ebr t\u00eb mes\u00ebm me t\u00eb cilin ndihej i k\u00ebnaqur dhe u kthye te Profesori. Ai p\u00ebrshkroi se si e b\u00ebri zgjedhjen e tij. Profesori i tha atij: \u201cK\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb nuk erdhe duar bosh. Ti k\u00ebrkove p\u00ebr nj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb mesatarisht i mir\u00eb dhe ke patur besim se \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjedhja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb gjeje. K\u00ebshtu b\u00ebhet zgjedhja p\u00ebr martes\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Studenti mbeti komplet i hutuar.<\/p>\n<p>Profesori e pyeti: \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebson tani?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Studenti u p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201cPo pyes veten se cila do t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb mir\u00eb, t\u00eb martohesh me nj\u00eb person q\u00eb e do ose t\u00eb duash personin me t\u00eb cilin martohesh\u201d. Profesori u p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje shum\u00eb e leht\u00eb, thjesht duhet t\u00eb jesh i gatsh\u00ebm ta pranosh at\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Morali<\/p>\n<p>Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb shport\u00eb frutash. Ose ju duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni nj\u00eb zgjedhje: t\u00eb hani frutat q\u00eb doni ose t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur me di\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e sh\u00ebndetshme! Zgjidhni me men\u00e7uri! 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