{"id":12396,"date":"2024-02-03T18:15:38","date_gmt":"2024-02-03T18:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=12396"},"modified":"2024-02-03T18:15:40","modified_gmt":"2024-02-03T18:15:40","slug":"nusja-18-vjece-i-dha-fund-jetes-pas-nje-muaj-martese-vjehrra-nuk-eshte-dhunuar-nga-djali-e-bullizonin-shoqet-ne-shkolle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/new.findnews5.com\/?p=12396","title":{"rendered":"Nusja 18-vje\u00e7e i dha fund jet\u00ebs pas nj\u00eb muaj martes\u00eb, vjehrra: Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb dhunuar nga djali, e bullizonin shoqet n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"78954ae5fa42b68c1393fe3da4998882\" data-index=\"1\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1576712\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n<p>Vet\u00ebm 25 dit\u00eb pasi u fejua, nj\u00eb 18-vje\u00e7are nga nj\u00eb fshat i Lushnj\u00ebs i dha fund jet\u00ebs duke pir\u00eb fostoksin\u00eb. Dyshohet se shkak jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb konfliktet e vazhdueshme me bashk\u00ebshortin 24 vje\u00e7, i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb hetim. Ata kishin 2 vite q\u00eb ishin njihur p\u00ebrmes rrjeteve sociale, thon\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e djalit.<\/p>\n<p>Ata p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb shuajn\u00eb \u00e7do z\u00eb se mes \u00e7iftit kishte probleme. Vjehrra e vajz\u00ebs 18-vje\u00e7are thot\u00eb se ndaj t\u00eb res\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ushtruar dhun\u00eb, dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00ebn ja l\u00eb ngarkes\u00ebs q\u00eb vajza ja pasur n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Prononcimi i vjehrr\u00ebs<\/p>\n<p>Nuk b\u00ebn asnj\u00eb vakti q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodhte kjo gj\u00eb nga ana e \u00e7unit. \u00c7uni e ka mbajt n\u00eb p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00eb t\u00eb dor\u00ebs, neve e kemi mbajt n\u00eb p\u00ebll\u00ebmb\u00eb t\u00eb dor\u00ebs. Dilni edhe pyesin n\u00ebse nusja ka pasur dhun\u00eb e tortur\u00eb nga ne. Nuk b\u00ebn vaki, nuk jan\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb kurr\u00eb. Nusen ne e kemi peshuar me gjitha gj\u00ebrat. Ne 25 dit\u00eb kemi q\u00eb e kemi fejuar, por nusen e kemi mbajt dhe m\u00eb para n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. E nusen e kemi mbajt n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi n\u00eb p\u00ebll\u00ebmbe t\u00eb dor\u00ebs. \u00c7uni ka punuar, vjehrri punonte, dilte e bridhte me \u00e7unin ku t\u2019i donte qejfi. Nuk ka pasur ankes\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kishit v\u00ebn\u00eb re ndonj\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb. Vet\u00ebm qeshte e di t\u00ebr\u00eb fshati q\u00eb nusja nuk ka pasur ankesa. Nusja ka qen\u00eb ngarkuar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Ishte viti i tret\u00eb gjimnaz. E mendojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb se kan\u00eb hedhur disa llafe moshataret e saj. Ne nuk e kishim problem fare, i tham\u00eb ta kan\u00eb inat flet shoq\u00ebria se e mbante mir\u00eb. Ne s\u2019dim\u00eb gj\u00eb fare. U dashuruan n\u00eb rrjetet sociale, e donin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Kishin 2 vjet q\u00eb njiheshin, nusja s\u2019na ka dal\u00eb kurr\u00eb nga dera e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe t\u00eb thonte q\u00eb pati tortur\u00eb. Erdhi pasdite i tha \u00e7unit se iki se do jap nj\u00eb privim n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj provimin dhe do vij. \u00c7uni i rrinte pronto. T\u00eb m\u00ebrkur\u00ebn n\u00eb dark\u00eb i tha, t\u00eb enjten kam fol un\u00eb me nusen.<\/p>\n<p>Shikoje (tregon bisedat me nusen): \u201cMir\u00ebm\u00ebngjesi a je mir\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00ebsoj mezi po rri n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb se kam ethe.<\/p>\n<p>Nat\u00ebn i them un\u00eb, muhabet grash.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo shkoj n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe do vi\u201d, mir\u00eb i them dhe un\u00eb iki n\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Nusen e kam pasur shum\u00eb t\u00eb rregullt, se nga kush i ka ardhur ne nuk dim\u00eb gj\u00eb. Nuk jemi familje e dhunuar e me sherre e me llafe. Kur erdha m\u00eb than\u00eb ka helmuar veten motra e madhe, se jan\u00eb dy motra. Mua m\u00eb than\u00eb p\u00ebr motr\u00ebn e madhe. Qysh i thua ti k\u00ebsaj nisje q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e dhunuar. Kam problemin e djalit, thot\u00eb do b\u00ebj hatan\u00eb q\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb ajo.<\/p>\n<p>Goca ka qen\u00eb e ngarkuar n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Ka ardhur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi duke qar\u00eb. Ka ardhur k\u00ebtu e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb gjestin. I ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u00e7uni po iki t\u00eb pi nj\u00eb kafe n\u00eb lokal, mir\u00eb i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb. Kur ka ardhur e ka marr\u00eb \u00e7unin n\u00eb telefon i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb hajde se un\u00eb piva helmin. M\u00eb ka b\u00ebr\u00eb hatan\u00eb. Vet\u00eb e ka marr\u00eb, \u00e7uni n\u00eb sekond\u00eb ka ardhur. Kjo ndodhi pasi erdhi nga shkolla. Ka shkuar te n\u00ebna e vet i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb nuk jam mir\u00eb. Edhe babai i djalit 24-vje\u00e7ar tenton ta orientoj\u00eb situat\u00ebn e r\u00ebnduar t\u00eb nuses s\u00eb tij t\u00eb ndjer\u00eb, tek shkolla, duke pretenduar se bullizohej nga shoqet. I pyetur n\u00ebse kishin v\u00eb re di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk shkonte te nusja, ai thot\u00eb se 18-vje\u00e7arja ishte tip i mbyllur.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cKa qen\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. Mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb pasur ndonj\u00eb xhelozi nga shoqet. Se ja kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb kot, a qysh, a tek, k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra i din\u00eb vet\u00ebm ata. Presion n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nuk ka pasur kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Kishit v\u00ebn\u00eb re di\u00e7ka te nusja?<\/p>\n<p>Ishte person q\u00eb nuk shprehej, ishte tip i mbyllur. Dit\u00ebn q\u00eb ka ndodhur kjo goca ka dal\u00eb nga shkolla duke qar\u00eb. \u00c7uni vajti e mori te sht\u00ebpia, sa e solli k\u00ebtu u largua p\u00ebr t\u00eb pir\u00eb nj\u00eb kafe me kush\u00ebririn e vet. I shkruan q\u00eb hajde se piva fostoksin\u00eb. Ta kishte pasur k\u00ebt\u00eb presion nga ne, s\u2019do i thonte \u00e7unit hajde m\u00eb merr\u201d, thot\u00eb babai i 24-vje\u00e7arit.<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vet\u00ebm 25 dit\u00eb pasi u fejua, nj\u00eb 18-vje\u00e7are nga nj\u00eb fshat i Lushnj\u00ebs i dha fund jet\u00ebs duke pir\u00eb fostoksin\u00eb. 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